Theory
Developmental Model
The Developmental Model frames relationship growth as a progression of maturational tasks. It emphasizes balancing connection with individuality, strengthening self-definition, and working with tension as part of long-term development.
Worksheets
Citations
- A Crucible for Love: Constructive Conflict in Marriage
Harvard University Press • 1998
- The Passionate Marriage
W. W. Norton • 2009
- The Developmental Model
The Couples Institute • 2024
Key concepts
- Differentiation and self-definition in partnership
- Growth through relational tension rather than avoidance
- Maturational tasks across stages of commitment
- Balancing individuality with mutual connection
- Clear boundaries and accountability in conflict
- From fusion pressure to grounded position-taking
- Practical development through repeated experiments